The Case for Condoms

While many people use condoms as a form of birth control, they are also an effective way to help reduce the chance of contracting a sexually transmitted disease (STD). In fact, when asked, many people now say that fear of contracting a disease is their main reason for using a condom. And it happens to be one of the best reasons according to some experts.

If you have been sexually active for any length of time, you have probably heard all kinds of reasons not to wear a condom. Everything from they don’t make them big enough to they lessen the feel or sensitivity of sex, have been given as excuses to not act responsibly. However, with the onset of more dangerous diseases, the only responsible thing to do is wear a condom.

If you are someone that has been told any of the above reasons for not wearing a condom and are actually considering the possibility, think again. It only takes one time to, in effect; ruin the rest of your life. Or, at the very least, consider the chance that you may become pregnant before you or your partner is ready for that type of commitment.

If you need a little extra help in convincing a partner to use a condom be sure to check out the Trojan Magnum 3's. Its features are designed to overcome the obstacles that some may say are the reason they don't wear them. They are larger than standard latex condoms providing extra comfort, have a silky lubricant for increased sensitivity and are tapered at the base as precaution against the chance of it coming off during sex.

You may want to keep several on hand for those spontaneous moments that without a condom may not be enjoyed or may not even be possible.

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 posted by Caitlin's Intimates   

Take Fear Out of the Equation

Has your partner expressed an interest in anal play but you are a little reluctant? Or perhaps you have suggested it but were met with a less than enthusiastic response.

Many times this type of reluctance is a fear of the unknown. If you have never experienced anal sex or been privy to someone who has and doesn’t mind talking about it, then it can cause a little anxiety. And naturally, the fear of it being painful is a major cause of reluctance. This is a very real fear and should not be a reason for ridicule.

Whether you are introducing someone to anal play or you are a first time recipient, the key ingredients are patience and gentleness. Trust may also be a factor in anal play whether you are giving or receiving. If you do not have enough time to thoroughly relax and take your time, it may be best to put it off until you find the time.

If you do have the time and trust your partner, there are some things that can be done to help make it more comfortable and enjoyable. Foreplay is a big part of anal sex as it helps get you going yet gives you time to relax. One particular toy that can actually help make it a more enjoyable experience for both of you is the Anal Dilator kit. These butt plugs, with their gradual increase in size (small, medium and large) are a great way to help you and your partner build up to the experience you are hoping to achieve.

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 posted by Caitlin's Intimates