Rediscover Your Lover

No matter how much you love your significant other; and no matter how attractive you find them - you can find yourself falling into a rut. If you feel as though your love life has been getting a little cold lately, there are a fun number of ways to rediscover your lover.

It doesn't have to be Valentine's get your lover a sexy gift you can both enjoy. If you don't incorporate toys on a regular basis in your bedroom play, consider getting a small and sleek vibrator and keeping it hidden until you're in the middle of foreplay and then sneak it out and buzz your lover.

Another way to put some spark back in your love life is to dress up. Dressing to undress is very sexy and you might even consider doing a slow striptease you can make it as serious or comical as you wish and either way - your lover will appreciate the effort.

Another fun activity you can both enjoy is to have a "movie night". Pack the kids off to Grandma and Grandpa's house for the night and get an adult movie you can enjoy watching. Forget the popcorn and bring your favorite oils, feathers or other accompaniments.

Give each other a massage. A sensual massage with lots of body to body touching is a great way to start off a night of lovemaking. Use aromatic lotions to soothe tired muscles and energize your partner. You can use separate warming lotions or even lotions that increase orgasm on more tender areas to send them into a pure state of arousal.

Use these tips to make your spark of your love burn brightly again. You will find you and your lover can barely keep your hands off each other once again.
 posted by Caitlin's Intimates   

Date Night!

Once you're a couple no matter how unique you think you are, you will soon find that you have pretty much the same day-to-day worries as everyone else. The kids need to get to school and after school activities, both of you have jobs that requires full days as well as sometimes late nights and weekend work, plus there are bills to pay and a never ending round of chores to do around the house. If you're not careful, you can lose your relationship in all that and find you're together but not so together anymore.

It's time to make your relationship the most important thing in your lives, even if it's only one night a week. Establish a date night for yourselves. Even if you can't afford a baby sitter once a week for date night, you can alternately plan to start your "dates" a little later after the kids go to bed and just keep it a little more quiet. In fact, the fact they need to be quiet reminds many couples of their teenage days when stolen moments were a lot more risky.

Rent an adult movie and enjoy it while you lay side by side in bed. Mimic what is going on in the movie with each other or you can just nudge each other every so often and confess, "I'd love it if you did that to me".

Some couples leave little presents for each other, nothing elaborate is necessary. Something as simple as a chocolate kiss on a pillow with a note that says,"I can't wait for our date tonight"; will be more than enough to get your partner's motor running as they anticipate the fun you're going to have later. You can further tease each other throughout the day by leaving sexy messages on voice mails or sending sexy text messages to each other's cell phones.

Be creative and make your date night a new tradition. You'll find your relationship will grow to a whole new level of love.
 posted by Caitlin's Intimates