Take Fear Out of the Equation

Has your partner expressed an interest in anal play but you are a little reluctant? Or perhaps you have suggested it but were met with a less than enthusiastic response.

Many times this type of reluctance is a fear of the unknown. If you have never experienced anal sex or been privy to someone who has and doesn’t mind talking about it, then it can cause a little anxiety. And naturally, the fear of it being painful is a major cause of reluctance. This is a very real fear and should not be a reason for ridicule.

Whether you are introducing someone to anal play or you are a first time recipient, the key ingredients are patience and gentleness. Trust may also be a factor in anal play whether you are giving or receiving. If you do not have enough time to thoroughly relax and take your time, it may be best to put it off until you find the time.

If you do have the time and trust your partner, there are some things that can be done to help make it more comfortable and enjoyable. Foreplay is a big part of anal sex as it helps get you going yet gives you time to relax. One particular toy that can actually help make it a more enjoyable experience for both of you is the Anal Dilator kit. These butt plugs, with their gradual increase in size (small, medium and large) are a great way to help you and your partner build up to the experience you are hoping to achieve.

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 posted by Caitlin's Intimates