Consider a Cock Ring
How many times have you heard, "I'm sorry, it doesn't usually happen that fast" Or even, "Baby, you are just so hot I couldn't help myself"? Well, while the latter is sort of a backhanded compliment it can still be frustrating for a woman if the man consistently reaches orgasm before her and can't continue or, even worse, orgasms before they really get started, thus facing the possibility of waiting a while to try again.
Is it frustrating, yes, impossible to deal with, not necessarily. If you are in a relationship and this is only a rare occurrence then you more than likely have nothing to worry about, everyone has off days or nights. However, if it has recently become a more common problem there are some things you can try to get everything back on track.
Of course, the first thing that should be done is to be checked by a doctor to make sure it is nothing serious that is causing this problem. Your man may be a little stubborn about going, but you are a smart woman, surely you will be able to bribe, no, "persuade" is a better word, him to be checked out. One other thing you may want to try if you haven’t already is patience, it could quite possibly be a temporary problem for any number of reasons.
If all else fails there are some great toys you can use to help you both get all the enjoyment you deserve out of your sexual encounters. A common toy is a cock ring, which works on the principal of "trapping" the blood that flows into the penis making it erect. Normally the blood flows out in a normal manner but if it flows out too quickly then maintaining an erection may become a problem. A cock ring traps the blood for a longer period of time allowing the penis to stay erect longer. Most experts agree it should only be used for about 30 minutes at a time to avoid cutting off the blood flow for too long.
If your mate doesn't seemed too thrilled with the idea of a cock ring you can always point out that one of the benefits that most men mention is that it tends to make their erections much harder and very sensitive to the touch. What man, or woman for that matter, could resist such an idea?
Is it frustrating, yes, impossible to deal with, not necessarily. If you are in a relationship and this is only a rare occurrence then you more than likely have nothing to worry about, everyone has off days or nights. However, if it has recently become a more common problem there are some things you can try to get everything back on track.
Of course, the first thing that should be done is to be checked by a doctor to make sure it is nothing serious that is causing this problem. Your man may be a little stubborn about going, but you are a smart woman, surely you will be able to bribe, no, "persuade" is a better word, him to be checked out. One other thing you may want to try if you haven’t already is patience, it could quite possibly be a temporary problem for any number of reasons.
If all else fails there are some great toys you can use to help you both get all the enjoyment you deserve out of your sexual encounters. A common toy is a cock ring, which works on the principal of "trapping" the blood that flows into the penis making it erect. Normally the blood flows out in a normal manner but if it flows out too quickly then maintaining an erection may become a problem. A cock ring traps the blood for a longer period of time allowing the penis to stay erect longer. Most experts agree it should only be used for about 30 minutes at a time to avoid cutting off the blood flow for too long.
If your mate doesn't seemed too thrilled with the idea of a cock ring you can always point out that one of the benefits that most men mention is that it tends to make their erections much harder and very sensitive to the touch. What man, or woman for that matter, could resist such an idea?
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posted by Caitlin's Intimates